Mother’s Day after Separation or Divorce
As Mother’s Day approaches this Sunday, shops are filled with cards, flowers, chocolates, and gifts as families across the UK prepare to celebrate. However, while it is hoped that most separated parents can agree on arrangements, this is not always possible—especially if the separation is recent or the co-parenting relationship has broken down. Consequently, this occasion may lead to stress and tension, particularly if Mother’s Day falls on a day when the children are not with their mum, and separated parents have been unable to reach an agreement about the children spending time with her.
There are no definitive rules about how long children should spend with each parent; it is fundamentally a matter for negotiation.
Top Tips for Separated Parents:
- Court Order: If there is a court order regarding the children, it may include specific provisions for Mother’s Day. It is advisable to review what the order states.
- Informal Arrangement/Agreement: If there is no court order, the mother may request the other parent to adjust arrangements so she can spend time with the children on Mother’s Day. However, there may be instances when it is not feasible to alter existing contact arrangements. In such cases, consider alternatives such as arranging indirect contact via video calls or phone calls.
- Celebrating Mother’s Day on a Different Day: There is no rule that mandates Mother’s Day must be celebrated on the official date. The mother can plan her own
- Special day when the children are with her.
Mother’s Day, like Father’s Day, is a special occasion that celebrates the love and care a parent provides. It is essential to prioritize the children’s best interests and well-being to ensure that the day is special for everyone involved. If an agreement cannot be reached this year, separated parents should consider how to address this in the future.
How we can help?At Hopkin Murray Beskine solicitors, we have a team of experienced family law specialists, who are Resolution or Law Society accredited in respect to children disputes. If this issue affects you and you want to discuss your situation in more detail then contact our specialist family team who will be able to assist and advise you at FamilyPrivate@hmbsolicitors.co.uk or on 020 7272 1234.
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